tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29678213534358877152024-03-13T10:28:22.218+08:00My World My Lifethis is me..............hui yinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03984541009682824779noreply@blogger.comBlogger175125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2967821353435887715.post-78285624401646511792019-03-27T01:07:00.003+08:002019-03-27T01:07:43.147+08:00-2019 年<br />
又是一个充满泪水的一年......<br />
情绪起伏很大<br />
能表演三秒落泪<br />
也能铁石心肠什么都感受不到<br />
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注定没未来没前途的我<br />
只能再次逃避<br />
用局外人的身份在地球上呼吸<br />
过一天是一天<br />
什么也做不了<br />
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我已经在最谷底了<br />
没得再低了<br />
想爬但又被打回来<br />
完全没有给我一丝逃脱的机会,期望<br />
我现在就只能在等<br />
等hui yinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03984541009682824779noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2967821353435887715.post-79663372141867359992019-01-25T01:12:00.001+08:002019-01-25T01:12:05.380+08:00第二波2019年1月24日 星期四<br />
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所以,六年半的时间过去之后,它还是来了。纯粹只想记录下来,否则以后会忘了这什么时候发生。去年五月的检测其实已验出尿液里含有蛋白质,医生说下一次再检查看看,如果还有就会进行下一步测试,然而九月的测试尿液没异样,所以就没什么,哪知今年一月的测试却测验出比上次蛋白质指数还高,医生把我送去renal clinic,结果一样, positive。<br />
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唉....... 跑医院的日子又开始了,一大堆可怕的测试,治疗等着我,一去不回。难得我慢慢的走回我的轨道,又要强行脱离了。好事就是不会发生在我身上。难道我就不能像个普通人,过普通人的生活吗?我已经没在追求什么了,就不能放过我吗?<br />
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本来很期待的2019年,我重新踏入校园的一九年,又被打回原形了。这跟之前那次有什么两样。我就那么没资格拥有未来吗?原本还想说就算知道自己不如人也不能再那样堕落下去了,总该为将来规划一下,免得到时候活不下去,现在还需要吗?<br />
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这么多年家庭、健康经历了那么多,还不能停下来结束这一切吗?人好累,心更累。好不容易坦然面对一切,正开始培养自信心,想不到连苗头都还没看见就深深地被踩进泥土里,到底是要我怎样活着才甘心?<br />
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这样活着好累,什么都不能做好累,没前途的人生还存在这世上,是为什么?我啊,永远活在最低层,什么都不能盼望,什么都不能要求,人生没价值观可谈。我不死于这病就是死于忧郁。<br />
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现在我啊,只想知道我会活到什么时候,好让我下决定我该怎么走下去,其余的,我不要了......<br />
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<span style="color: #ead1dc;">“ 很好啊 ” </span><br />
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<span style="color: orange;">“ 最近怎样?”</span><br />
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<span style="color: orange;">“ 最近怎样?”</span><br />
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<span style="color: orange;">“ 最近怎样?”</span><br />
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<span style="color: orange;">“ 最近怎样?”</span><br />
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<span style="color: orange;">“ 最近怎样?”</span><br />
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<span style="color: #3d85c6;">“ 还有呼吸 ”</span><br />
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对,我还呼吸着……hui yinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03984541009682824779noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2967821353435887715.post-5336220059873612732015-03-12T01:42:00.000+08:002015-03-12T01:42:08.250+08:00-不知不觉,步入了2015 年,二十四岁了……<br />
前途依然迷茫,处于<span style="color: orange;">坚持</span>与<span style="color: #6fa8dc;">放下</span>之间<br />
有时候并不是不想<span style="color: orange;">坚持</span>,只是决定权不在我这,我做不了什么<br />
人家看不看我的履历表,我逼不了<br />
看了但觉得我不够资格,我也辩护不了我自己<br />
连面试的机会都不给,我怎能证明我自己?<br />
不是说成绩不代表一切吗?<br />
留学不了只好在本地读,就输人家吗?<br />
就是刚毕业没工作经验,就表示我胜任不了吗?<br />
凭两面 A4 纸就<span style="color: #d5a6bd;">否认</span>我的能力?<br />
<span style="color: orange;">坚持</span>,怎么<span style="color: orange;">坚持</span>?<br />
直接冲进公司大声宣言我要找工?<br />
还是一直等一直等?<br />
抱歉啊,我还得吃饭的啊<br />
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<span style="color: #6fa8dc;">放下</span>,说放就放?<br />
这么多年来的努力与信念<br />
筹备了那么久<br />
还没上场就放弃?<br />
怎么接受?<br />
我不会当初就选择不读这科<br />
直接朝另一个方向走就好?<br />
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唉……<br />
被<span style="color: #d5a6bd;">否认</span>的感觉真烂<br />
我又不是没有努力<br />
我也不是很差劲<br />
一次表现的机会也不给我……<br />
我……不想<span style="color: #6fa8dc;">放下</span>,想<span style="color: orange;">坚持</span><br />
但,能<span style="color: orange;">坚持</span>多久?<br />
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<br />hui yinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03984541009682824779noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2967821353435887715.post-33371919848509525382014-12-02T23:34:00.001+08:002014-12-02T23:34:51.324+08:00十二月<div style="text-align: center;">
十二月你好 ^^</div>
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不知为何的,特别喜欢今年的你</div>
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是因为圣诞节?</div>
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还是因为最近一直处于红色环境,特别钟爱红色气氛?</div>
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向来排斥的红色</div>
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默默地给我带来温暖、热情与正能量</div>
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仿佛在告诉我</div>
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继续保持当年的心态</div>
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别放弃希望、别放弃梦想</div>
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那红色并不冲动、不汹涌、不啰嗦、不紧迫</div>
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它悄悄的、心平气和的观察你、体会你再拥抱你</div>
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就像冬天里的热咖啡一样</div>
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香且不会过烫</div>
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有种被细心呵护、幸福的感觉……</div>
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虽然它已是今年的最后一页</div>
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但我觉得它将会是今年最棒的一个月</div>
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好好享受它吧</div>
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明年也会是美好的一年</div>
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加油!!!</div>
hui yinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03984541009682824779noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2967821353435887715.post-16914897326427807312014-10-12T00:08:00.002+08:002014-10-12T00:08:55.563+08:00领悟<div style="text-align: center;">
总算回来了一些些</div>
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六年的堕落</div>
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六年的空白期</div>
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六年的迷茫</div>
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相当的</div>
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代价也是成正比的</div>
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要弥补回这六年里空白</div>
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得努力好几十倍甚至好几百倍</div>
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六年时间</div>
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不算短</div>
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况且是黄金岁月里的六年</div>
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要追回来</div>
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得花上比六年还要多的时间</div>
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再加上原本就在走的时间</div>
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何年何月我才能恢复到不曾堕落带给我一切的境界</div>
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难吧</div>
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毕竟这段时间里失去的</div>
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有些怎么追也追不回来</div>
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六年了才领悟</div>
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是好事还是坏事?</div>
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总比之后才领悟好吧</div>
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但六年时间的确是长了些</div>
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不再以任何借口让自己一直沉下去</div>
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不再以任何借口让自己逃避现实</div>
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选择是自己的</div>
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别让当初的自己失望</div>
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别让关心你的人失望</div>
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自己要是不努力帮自己</div>
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别人的用心也是白费</div>
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对得起人家吗?</div>
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回来吧,郭慧盈</div>
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我已经醒了</div>
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准备好迎接你了</div>
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虽然过程会很辛苦</div>
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但我就不相信凭我的实力我做不到</div>
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我谁啊?</div>
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做不到?开什么玩笑</div>
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很庆幸让我遇见了你</div>
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让我的生命从新点燃</div>
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领导我从新踏入这世界</div>
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或许你都不会知道你是我的贵人</div>
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对我的影响有多么大</div>
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但我还是深深地向你道谢</div>
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我会永远记得你对我的恩惠</div>
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谢谢你</div>
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活着,还是有希望的</div>
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虽然我经历了悲伤的过去,患上了疾病</div>
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但其实我并没有很悲惨</div>
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我身边一直都充满着贵人,帮助我,关心我,爱我的人</div>
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就剩下看自己怎么看待整件事</div>
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自己的心态</div>
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还有自己的选择</div>
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我不是一个人活着的</div>
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看不看得见身边的人</div>
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接不接受他人帮助</div>
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都取决于自己</div>
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把心荡开,用心感受</div>
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希望还是存在的</div>
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六年……</div>
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追回来吧……</div>
hui yinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03984541009682824779noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2967821353435887715.post-60211146265342992062014-08-18T14:51:00.004+08:002014-08-18T14:54:51.098+08:00last paper<span style="color: red;">Date</span> : 18/8/2014<br />
<span style="color: red;">Day</span> : Monday<br />
<span style="color: red;">Time</span> : 1000-1300<br />
<span style="color: red;">Venue</span> : DeTsar<br />
<span style="color: red;">Seat</span> : B22<br />
<span style="color: red;">Student</span> : Koay Hui Yin<br />
<span style="color: red;">ID</span> : 1001129552<br />
<span style="color: red;">Subject Code</span> : AS 306<br />
<span style="color: red;">Subject Name</span> : Credibility Theory<br />
<span style="color: red;">Lecturer</span> : Mr Halim Shukri Kamaruddin<br />
<span style="color: red;">Memo</span> : Last paper, Pen out of ink, wt*, more time please ~ should have study more >.< ........<br />
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okay, its time to start study.......... for professional papers..............hui yinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03984541009682824779noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2967821353435887715.post-62402700748100253272014-08-16T22:26:00.002+08:002014-08-16T22:26:50.611+08:00-<div style="text-align: center;">
后天就会考degree 生涯的最后一张 paper, 感触很多……</div>
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就这样结束了吗?</div>
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不……</div>
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我会继续走下去</div>
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不去争取</div>
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就永远得不到</div>
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以后也别抱怨命运坎坷</div>
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我管他的别人怎么看怎么说</div>
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我的路我自己走</div>
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我没有要以谁为目标</div>
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也已经不想跟别人比较</div>
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我只想做会令我打从心底喜悦的事情</div>
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我喜欢就好</div>
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我承担得起就好</div>
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对得起自己的道德良心</div>
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不伤天害理</div>
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不剥夺属于别人的</div>
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所以别对我存有任何期望</div>
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我不为他人而活</div>
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hui yinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03984541009682824779noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2967821353435887715.post-73664955452084156312014-07-12T21:59:00.000+08:002014-07-12T21:59:06.580+08:00十字路口<div style="text-align: center;">
站在十字路口中</div>
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放眼望去</div>
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看不见尽头</div>
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没有路标</div>
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只能凭感觉走上孤独的单程路</div>
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不得回头</div>
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不能后悔</div>
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不想有遗憾</div>
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路,该怎么走?</div>
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hui yinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03984541009682824779noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2967821353435887715.post-82203851303170108692014-07-09T22:25:00.001+08:002014-07-09T22:25:29.123+08:00向左走,向右走<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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就是他了……</div>
<br />hui yinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03984541009682824779noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2967821353435887715.post-75384651187363078252014-06-30T23:52:00.002+08:002014-06-30T23:52:47.362+08:00纯粹 update上个星期考了SOA FM paper, 谢天谢地 pass 了,现在为下一张 paper 努力,加油加油 !!!! <div>
可惜的是在同一个星期考的 SPIF test 1 就不是考得很好了,虽然成绩还没出,但可以感觉到并不是很好,犯了很多不应该犯的mistakes, 希望别考得太差啦,刚才老师有说有人考到70++ 分,我不能考太差吧,至少。</div>
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六月就这样过去了,忙死人的七月来了,还没找工,还没开始做 assigment,最可怕的是 IP2 还没开始,完全没头绪,想撞墙了结算了。现在 week 9,assigment due date 三星期后,IP2 due date 四星期后,同时在八月必须找到工作,其间还有 test 2,week 14 presentation, week 15 开始 final, Raya 那星期要去医院复诊,还没买 interview 穿的衣服,鞋子…… 恐怖啊~ 压力像瀑布一样一直冲下来,连眼睛也睁不开 >.<</div>
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hui yinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03984541009682824779noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2967821353435887715.post-2274204849583729052014-06-10T21:39:00.000+08:002014-06-10T21:39:07.381+08:00最后一次 迟迟一直没有更新我的部落格,因为我知道我很舍不得,舍不得离开读书的日子,舍不得校园的一切,以为只要不更新进展,时间就不会流失,永远停在原地,我就是那么傻。挣扎了很久,我还是来了这里,留下我的踪影,就让它痛,也不要留下遗憾。<div>
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虽然我常抱怨学校这个不好那个不好,但毕竟也三年了,对人事物也产生了感情,就算不好我也慢慢包容了,世上没有完美,我也感受到真诚,努力与付出,却要离开了,为什么?我是个慢热的人,许多事情现在才正要开始,许多事情我还没做,机会溜走了…… 遗憾永远都伴在我左右,好不喜欢。许情感都还没来得及表达,就要永远被埋在海里了吗?</div>
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很快的,时间就到了…… 剩下的时间,请让我好好过吧……</div>
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okay, finally I have registered myself for the SOA-<span style="color: red;">FM</span> exam, it falls in <span style="color: lime;">June</span>, and I have paid $190 for it. So, there is no other excuses than study hard for it, yeah~ i don't want to waste my money, and i really have to force myself contribute something this year, i am not young anymore. Probably by this coming Monday, i will registered myself for another SOA exam which is the <span style="color: red;">MFE</span> exam that falls in <span style="color: lime;">July</span>. I know i am a little bit harsh to myself but that's what i need to do now, have to collect as many qualifications as i could before i graduate. So, there is not much time left, really really need motivations to push myself, to be who i wanna be.</div>
hui yinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03984541009682824779noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2967821353435887715.post-69505057082278773192014-03-30T21:50:00.003+08:002014-03-30T21:50:56.306+08:00-最近情绪像天气一样,飘浮不定。这一秒好好的,下一秒心情大坏,难以预测。想定下来,但却找不到支撑点,只是想在暴风雨来袭的时候,有个地方躲一躲,而不是逆风而行,去突破那暴风雨,最终不仅达不到目标但却伤痕累累,身心疲惫。漂泊在外的灵魂也想回家了,但却回不了家,一直认为是迷路了,四处打转,但现在才发现原来不是迷路,而是无家可归,没有家,哪来的路,事实就是这样,迷路这说法只是让自己好过一点而已,这可怜的灵魂……hui yinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03984541009682824779noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2967821353435887715.post-9277142253937492992014-03-14T01:19:00.001+08:002014-03-14T01:19:46.018+08:00成绩我知道成绩并不代表一切<br />
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但能代表我的,好像只有成绩了……</div>
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人家说"<span style="color: red;">don't judge the book by its cover</span>"</div>
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那么"<span style="color: red;">first impression</span>" 又是什么立场?</div>
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就算是影印在背面的故事大纲</div>
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也不会把真相说出来<br />
只有完完全全把书读完<br />
才能了解那本书的精华以及所想表达的内容<br />
在这社会上<br />
谁又会读完整本书之后再决定买不买这本书?<br />
就算是看过了 readers' review 才决定买的<br />
还不也是靠别人的论点才做的决定<br />
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所以<br />
我想说的是<br />
包装自己很重要<br />
现在可以让别人看见我的存在的<br />
只有成绩而已<br />
只有那优异的成绩<br />
才能够让我鹤立鸡群<br />
才能让人看到我的存在价值<br />
除了成绩,<br />
我没别的了……<br />
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而现在问题就出现在我的成绩并不优异<br />
一直每况愈下<br />
在我对自己洗脑要活得有意义,对自己好一点,享受人生的时候<br />
许多人都超越了我<br />
而我也没保持原有状况<br />
不仅没进步还退步了<br />
我仅剩下的筹码<br />
也快消失了……<br />
我还能保住我的筹码吗?<br />
我不想就这样消失掉……<br />
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hui yinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03984541009682824779noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2967821353435887715.post-57977009327142992702014-03-10T23:11:00.000+08:002014-03-10T23:11:37.236+08:00该。不该<div style="text-align: center;">
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<span style="color: red;">追求我想拥有的一切</span></div>
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<span style="color: red;">就算伤痕累累</span></div>
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<span style="color: red;">至少我对得起我自己</span></div>
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突然间,</div>
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觉得自己错过太多了,</div>
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总是顾虑这个,顾虑那个,</div>
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因为不想对别人造成伤害,所以往往都不能跟着感觉走,</div>
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因为不想面对失去,所以干脆不去拥有,</div>
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因为自卑,所以总觉得我没条件,也没资格。</div>
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千千万万个因为</div>
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在我的周围建了四面厚厚的防弹玻璃墙</div>
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若有若无</div>
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看得见却摸不着</div>
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出不去也进不来</div>
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把我跟世界隔离了。</div>
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什么时候我才会踏出第一步</div>
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什么时候我才会活出自我</div>
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什么时候我的世界不再是我一个人</div>
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什么时候我才能抬头挺胸往前走</div>
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什么时候……</div>
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此时理智回来了</div>
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狠狠的烙下一句</div>
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<span style="color: red;">只有我才能保护你</span></div>
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<span style="color: red;">只有我才看得清哪件事不会让你受伤害</span></div>
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<span style="color: red;">那无谓的感情</span></div>
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<span style="color: red;">风险太大了</span></div>
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<span style="color: red;">不值得冒险</span></div>
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<span style="color: red;">把那多年来建立的保护墙摧毁</span></div>
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<span style="color: red;">只有我才知道怎么做才是对的</span></div>
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但,理智啊</div>
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你忘了一件事</div>
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我是人类啊……</div>
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我说过这么一句话</div>
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<span style="color: red;">我要到一个没有人认识我的地方重新开始生活</span></div>
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想当年</div>
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我是多么的坚持</div>
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恨不得离开</div>
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抛下一切</div>
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塑造出新的我</div>
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时间一天一天的流失</div>
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也一天一天的经历种种考验与挫折</div>
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多年后</div>
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看见这语录</div>
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我只是淡淡一笑</div>
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原来,我曾有这种想法过</div>
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我不能很确实地说</div>
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我现在不再有这想法了</div>
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没勇气了吗?</div>
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放弃追求自己的人生了?</div>
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认命了?</div>
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还是长大了</div>
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想开了?</div>
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肯面对了?</div>
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如今灵魂出窍只剩下空壳的我无法回答</div>
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或许以上原因都不是答案</div>
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我一直都把头脑放空着</div>
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逃避着</div>
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没长大吧?</div>
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还是那么幼稚吧?</div>
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我停留在哪里了?</div>
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不久前见了多年的朋友</div>
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谈了些以前的事情</div>
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愕然发现</div>
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我已经不是以前的我了</div>
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我是谁啊?</div>
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第二人格?</div>
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第三人格?</div>
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旁观者?</div>
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好陌生</div>
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一点个性也没有</div>
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无法辨别到底是什么</div>
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无法决定到底该怎么走下去</div>
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麻烦来唤醒</div>
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这还在漂流的灵魂</div>
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到底飘到哪儿啦?</div>
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打开了部落格<br />
盯着那空白的新页<br />
打不出字来<br />
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最近什么情绪?<br />
都在做些什么?<br />
我没想法……<br />
只觉得时间走得太快了<br />
快得让人头晕目眩<br />
快得让人对它没有记忆<br />
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颓废吗?<br />
也不见得完全是<br />
的确有在过着生活<br />
但却又说不出实际的事情<br />
都是琐碎的事情吗?<br />
或许<br />
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我都在做些什么啊?hui yinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03984541009682824779noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2967821353435887715.post-91107585057465636142014-01-20T21:29:00.000+08:002014-01-20T21:29:23.654+08:00一百天的挑战<span style="color: lime;">一百天的挑战</span>,你会想到什么呢?<br />
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积极运动一百天,瘦身加练腹肌?<br />
每天做既有趣又有意义的事情?<br />
每天更新部落格?<br />
读完一百本书?<br />
去完所有咖啡厅?<br />
找到男朋友?<br />
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都不是,这次的挑战的确充满挑战性,那就是————————<span style="color: orange;">考试</span>。<br />
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为何很挑战呢?<br />
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<span style="color: red;">一</span>,加上今天与考试当天,刚刚好剩下<span style="color: cyan;">一百天</span>。(三个月更本是不够时间准备的,想当年本人考第一张 paper 时花了将近两个月半三个月的时间准备,而且是充实的两个月哦~)<br />
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<span style="color: red;">二</span>,除了这张 paper 以外,本人这个 sem 修读五个科目,year 3 subjects, 同样有assignments, projects, tests, presentations, 及 finals,所以,我的workload 得乘于五,可以想象接下来的日子我已经没有睡眠及娱乐时间了。<br />
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<span style="color: red;">三</span>,还得扣除新年,看病,以及学校所有功课和考试的时间,所以一百天其实不是一百天……<br />
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<span style="color: red;">四</span>,今年那张 paper 开始实行新的syllabus, 新的考法,新的改法,I got no idea how it is ……<br />
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<span style="color: red;">五</span>,至今学校教的只有一半而已,也就是说一半得靠自己摸索咯……<br />
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<span style="color: red;">六</span>,这张 paper 比之前我考的那张难很多很多……<br />
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<span style="color: red;">七</span>,40% MCQ, 60% subjective……(去年全是 MCQ T.T )<br />
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<span style="color: red;">八</span>,总共有 58 个 chapters, 加上复习和练习,所以起码我一天得搞定一个 chapter, 我还有其他科目也要读的喂!!!!<br />
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<span style="color: red;">九</span>,最重要的是,一张 paper 就要 $375 USD, 千多块马币,我可不想把钱丢进海里。<br />
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我看我八成是疯了,死命要去考…… 原本以为六月才考,谁知却提早那么多,害到我的计划次序颠倒…… 算了吧,还是开始读书实际点…… 各位,麻烦逼我读书一下~ 目前能做的,就是不断催眠我自己,<span style="color: magenta; font-size: large;">我是行的!!!!!!</span><br />
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<br />hui yinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03984541009682824779noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2967821353435887715.post-77729856874760861512014-01-17T18:53:00.001+08:002014-01-17T18:53:46.334+08:00-时间过得好快,不知不觉一月已经过了一半……<br />
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开学两个星期过去了,一直忙于 add & drop, 终于都搞定了,已确定这学期将进修哪五科,时间表也排好了。近年来我都没什么有 productivity, 回想起中学时期,原来我也又以自己为傲的时刻,虽然成绩不是说厉害到很厉害的那种,但至少还不错,也突然间很想念 玩chess 的时期,chess 带个我的荣耀。 那时候的我虽然并不觉得 chess 怎样,但是现在却发觉那时候 chess 另我有多积极,态度也不一样,我说的不只是针对 chess 而已,而是整个人生,生活,思想的态度。自从不玩 chess 之后,顿时间感觉上整个人也跟着停止成长,很懒散,不积极,没有目标,没有动力…… 好想念以前的时光…… 不久前有人说我很 low profile, 几乎不知道我这个人的存在,我心想,应该不至于吧,虽然我不喜欢出风头,高调的生活,但也不用如此没有存在感吧?! 我追求低调华丽,低调我有,华丽呢?近年来的成就= 0,课业上,运动上,社交上,感情上,统统交白卷,而且还每况愈下,白活了这么久,而我近期都把全部归于健康问题,现在想想,的确是种不负责任的行为,现在只想把当年 从 chess 那里学会来的态度找回来,再次出发。所以呢,我决定了,我要努力读书,这是最最最基本的了,不然,实在是对不起自己,对不起父母,对不起所有看得起我老师们。铺陈了那么久,我的 main point 就是今年我会尽我所能,考越多张 paper 越好。目前的planning 就是 四月及六月个考一张,年尾再考一张,如果能的话另加上一张,所以就是说最少三张,最多四张。凭以前的我的能力,我相信不会是个问题,现在呢……只能希望我快点重拾我失去的态度与信心,快点振作起来。去年年头是个很好的开始,但之后就不了了之,今年不许再这样了,讲到就要做到,不再拖拖拉拉。<br />
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2014 年,final year, 将会很忙很忙,加上考试,应该会更忙,但我不会忘记享受人生的~ >.< 谁知道我会活多久。无论如何,活得精彩,对得起自己就好。<br />
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一切都涨价,什么东西都好贵 T.T 考试又需要一大笔钱,又没收入,<span style="font-size: large;">我没有钱了!!!!!</span> 又要到处玩,又要逛街买东西 <span style="font-size: x-small;">(女人本性难移)</span>…………钱…………T.T<br />
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今年新年并没有买很多,因为我知道即使新年过了,<span style="font-size: large;">我还是会继续买</span>!!!!!!!<br />
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哦,对了,我忘了看医生,买药也需要很多钱的 T.T ~<br />
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钱…………别再跟我作对了,拜托……<br />
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hui yinhui yinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03984541009682824779noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2967821353435887715.post-50450909259696106222014-01-01T13:01:00.001+08:002014-01-01T13:01:19.181+08:002014Hi, 2014, 你好 ~ 都还来不及与 2013 说声再见,你已迫不及待的闯入我的生命,好像我有得选择停留在22 岁似的……<br />
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就这样,我在睡梦中离开了2013,不带走一片云彩,只带走了2013 留下来的摊子。无所谓,只要2014 活得精彩就行了。2013 年头,我设下了目标,目标达到几成??算了,计算不来,没有测量方式既没有测量单位,算不上是个 physical quantity。只能说,时间过得太快了,仿佛一转头就已经是一年了,什么东西都没做到,却老了一岁。只能感慨自己脚步不够快,跟不上时代。<br />
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2014,做什么好?过了今年,就得跟读书的日子说bye bye 了,但又不想跟社会说 hello。算,活得简单些,把每一件事做到最好就好。期待2014?顺其自然吧,别再有坏消息就很好了。<br />
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我的2014 看起来很沉闷?或许,平平淡淡总好过大起大落。谁知明天会发生什么事啊,事情往往都不会顺着心意走,想这样多,讲这样多也没用。<br />
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hui yinhui yinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03984541009682824779noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2967821353435887715.post-41307531399758795522013-10-19T02:16:00.000+08:002013-10-19T02:16:55.952+08:00《主君的太阳》<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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偶然发现的连续剧,原本想找关于<span style="color: lime;">《继承者们》</span>以及<span style="color: lime;">《未来的选择》</span>的资料,却无意间让我发现这部韩剧——<span style="color: orange;">《主君的太阳》</span></div>
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首先,<span style="color: red;">第一</span>样先吸引我的是<span style="color: cyan;">孔孝真</span>。自从<span style="color: magenta;">《最佳爱情》</span>之后,觉得<span style="color: cyan;">孔孝真</span>还不赖,还蛮喜欢她的,所以就点击进去<span style="color: orange;">《主君的太阳》</span>的网页。看了遍介绍,发现那编剧曾编过<span style="color: magenta;">《梦幻情侣》</span>,<span style="color: magenta;">《最佳爱情》</span>以及<span style="color: magenta;">《原来是美男啊》</span>,全都是我爱看得韩剧,题材都很新鲜,都不是常看到的肥皂剧,所以光看编剧我就很期待这部作品,一定是一部与众不同的连续剧,这也是吸引我的<span style="color: red;">第二点</span>。<span style="color: red;">三</span>,这部韩剧今年八月开始上映,十月初才结束,可说是最近期啊~ 正合我意,不用一集一集的等。</div>
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果然,这部韩剧没让我失望,很不一般的题材,虽然开始看的时候有点怕怕,可是看久了就还好,抱着看爱情片的心态去看就不会觉得恐怖了。男主角<span style="color: cyan;">苏志燮</span>曾演过<span style="color: lime;">《巴厘岛的日子》</span>,对他第一印象不是很好,因为觉得他不帅,很像科学怪人,再说那时候<span style="color: cyan;">赵仁成</span>是男主角,当然是<span style="color: cyan;">赵仁成</span>帅啊~ 但现在却对他改观了,觉得其实他没有很像科学怪人了,可能时间久了,人也改变了,总之就不讨厌他了,在这部剧中觉得剧里的他还蛮可爱的,我说的是性格与言行举止。或许以后会开始关注他也不一定~ </div>
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这编剧另一个特点就是会加入许多友情客串在剧中,所以不时不时会有惊喜。整体来说这部剧充满 suspense, 剧情不会照着想的进行,好看,不会闷,不会想 fast forward, 也不会想 skip, 也就是说每一秒都是重点,错过一秒钟可能就会连不上剧情。很推荐的一部连续剧,很难可以找到好看的韩剧 ,<span style="color: orange;">《主君的太阳》</span>会加入我的 list 里面。一口气把它看完,我觉得我不是人,更何况下星期 final 了。不管怎么说,人各有志,或许你不会喜欢这部韩剧,但如果你的喜好跟我一样,那你一定也会喜欢的~ ^^ 好好享受吧~</div>
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Last Saturday night, I picked up a phone call from my dear cousin, asking me whether can I have lunch on Sunday afternoon. As you all know, I am super duper free all the time, tough my final exam starts next week, but I don't think I will start my <strike>revision</strike> study so soon, so without any doubt, I said yes. Usually my cousin, Ivy and I when out together with her husband most of the time, but this time, my aunty is coming from Penang so is a bit occasional rather than just a casual outing. </div>
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On Sunday afternoon, Ivy picked me up around 11.30 am, then we drove to <span style="color: orange;">Publika Solaris Dutamas</span>. We suppose to meet up at 12 pm but due to some undone job, we change to 1 pm. So that means we have plenty of time wondering there. We walked around the mall, and we decided to spend our spare time at <span style="color: cyan;">The</span> <span style="color: cyan;">Red Bean Bags</span>, heard it from various sources, and the reviews also not bad, so we decided to have a try there but unfortunately, it was full house. No fade, we change our target to <span style="color: cyan;">San Francisco Coffee</span>. </div>
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While waiting for our coffee and food, it's our vain time~ This is what i called " 当疯狂牧羊遇上沉闷金牛”,几岁人了还做这种事 >.< everyone inside/outside the shop is looking at us, so what, they won't remember me afterwards :p</div>
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after finished our " pre-lunch" she started to behave mischievously again. What kind of photo is this?? Who on this earth will want to take this photo and send it to someone who was late for a few minutes for the purpose of frightening that person?? However, before we manage to send it, we have received phone call saying they have reached, 唉~可惜。</div>
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P.S. being the youngest is always the best ^^, probably need to pay back my "debt" when i'm older later, who knows~ 管它的,享受当下最重要,能够成为一家人是一种缘分,别计较那么多~</div>
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Enjoying a band performance while waiting others who went to the washroom. Sometimes I admire those people who chasing for their dreams, how much courage is needed to do so?? A conservative people like me found it too risky to do it, dreams are always the second option. </div>
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we have some similar features, she said these proven we are a family, same genes~</div>
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This is only a small part of my family, i have lots of cousin, but we only meet up during CNY, because everyone is busy with their own career, own life, own family. Me and my brother are the youngest among same level, and our gap is quite big, Alicia is just before me but we are six years old difference, so I didn't spend my childhood with my cousins, except from Ivy because I stay with her family. However, I still love all of them very much, they always help me and show their love to me, hence, spending time with them is very precious. They always become the role model of my life, whenever i meet problems i will seek for their advice. It's my honor having such cousins in my life, really appreciate it. Will show you all the rest of my family when i have chance later~ </div>
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Introverts are notoriously small talk-phobic, as they find idle chatter to be a source of anxiety, or at least annoyance. For many quiet types, chitchat can feel disingenuous.</div>
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“Let's clear one thing up: Introverts do not hate small talk because we dislike people," Laurie Helgoe writes in <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Introvert-Power-Inner-Hidden-Strength/dp/B00CVDR4FS" style="border: 0px; color: #6aa3b1; list-style: none; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;" target="_hplink">"Introvert Power: Why Your Inner Life Is Your Hidden Strength."</a> "We hate small talk because we hate the barrier it creates between people.”</div>
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If you're an introvert, you may sometimes enjoy going to parties, but chances are, you're not going because you're excited to meet new people. At a party, most introverts would rather spend time with people they already know and feel comfortable around. If you happen to meet a new person that you connect with, great -- but meeting people is rarely the goal.</div>
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Ever feel like an outsider in the middle of social gatherings and group activities, even with people you know?</div>
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"If you tend to find yourself feeling alone in a crowd, you might be an introvert," says Dembling. "We might let friends or activities pick us, rather than extending our own invitations."</div>
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Networking (read: small-talk with the end goal of advancing your career) can feel particularly disingenuous for introverts, who crave authenticity in their interactions.</div>
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"Networking is stressful if we do it in the ways that are stressful to us," Dembling says, advising introverts to network in small, intimate groups rather than at large mixers.</div>
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<strong style="border: 0px; list-style: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">5. You've been called "too intense."</strong></div>
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Do you have a penchant for philosophical conversations and a love of thought-provoking books and movies? If so, you're a textbook introvert.</div>
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"Introverts like to jump into the deep end," says Dembling.</div>
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While extroverts tend to get bored easily when they don't have enough to do, introverts have the opposite problem -- they get easily distracted and overwhelmed in environments with an excess of stimulation.</div>
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"Extroverts are commonly found to be more easily bored than introverts on monotonous tasks, probably because they require and thrive on high levels of stimulation," <a href="http://www.todmanpsychology.org/resources/The%20Experience%20of%20Boredom%20-%20The%20role%20of%20Self-Perception%20of%20Attention%20(Damrad-Frye%20%26%20Laird,%201989).pdf" style="border: 0px; color: #6aa3b1; list-style: none; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;" target="_hplink">Clark University researchers wrote in a paper published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology</a>. "In contrast, introverts are more easily distracted than extroverts and, hence, prefer relatively unstimulating environments."</div>
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<strong style="border: 0px; list-style: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">7. Downtime doesn’t feel unproductive to you.</strong></div>
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One of the most fundamental characteristics of introverts is that they need time alone to recharge their batteries. Whereas an extrovert might get bored or antsy spending a day at home alone with tea and a stack of magazines, this sort of down time feels necessary and satisfying to an introvert.</div>
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<strong style="border: 0px; list-style: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">8. Giving a talk in front of 500 people is less stressful than having to mingle with those people afterwards.</strong></div>
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Introverts can be excellent leaders and public speakers -- and although they're stereotyped as being the shrinking violet, they don't necessarily shy away from the spotlight. Performers like <a href="http://www.hollyscoop.com/lady-gaga/lady-gaga-admits-she-doesnt-fit-in-to-hollywood-scene.html" style="border: 0px; color: #6aa3b1; list-style: none; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;" target="_hplink">Lady Gaga</a>, Christina Aguilera and Emma Watson all <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/08/13/famous-introverts_n_3733400.html" style="border: 0px; color: #6aa3b1; list-style: none; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;" target="_hplink">identify as introverts</a>, and an estimated <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/08/05/an-introverts-office-surv_n_3670946.html" style="border: 0px; color: #6aa3b1; list-style: none; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;" target="_hplink">40 percent of CEOs</a> have introverted personalities. Instead, an introvert might struggle more with meeting and greeting large groups of people on an individual basis.</div>
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<strong style="border: 0px; list-style: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">9. When you get on the subway, you sit at the end of the bench -– not in the middle.</strong></div>
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Whenever possible, introverts tend to avoid being surrounded by people on all sides.</div>
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"We're likely to sit in places where we can get away when we're ready to -- easily," says Dembling. "When I go to the theater, I want the aisle seat or the back seat."</div>
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<strong style="border: 0px; list-style: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">10. You start to shut down after you’ve been active for too long.</strong></div>
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Do you start to get tired and unresponsive after you've been out and about for too long? It's likely because you’re trying to conserve energy. Everything introverts do in the outside world causes them to expend energy, after which they'll need to go back and replenish their stores in a quiet environment, says Dembling. Short of a quiet place to go, many introverts will resort to zoning out.</div>
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<strong style="border: 0px; list-style: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">11. You're in a relationship with an extrovert.</strong></div>
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It's true that opposites attract, and introverts frequently gravitate towards outgoing extroverts who encourage them to have fun and not take themselves too seriously.</div>
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"Introverts are sometimes drawn to extroverts because they like being able to ride their 'fun bubble,'" Dembling says.</div>
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<strong style="border: 0px; list-style: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">12. You'd rather be an expert at one thing than try to do everything.</strong></div>
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The dominant brain pathways introverts use is one that allows you to focus and think about things for a while, so they’re geared toward intense study and developing expertise, <a href="http://www.mensafoundation.org/what-we-do/education-and-outreach/conversations-with-mensa-podcast/introverted-advantages/" style="border: 0px; color: #6aa3b1; list-style: none; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;" target="_hplink">according to Olsen Laney</a>.</div>
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<strong style="border: 0px; list-style: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">13. You actively avoid any shows that might involve audience participation.</strong></div>
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Because really, is anything more terrifying?</div>
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You may not pick up your phone even from people you like, but you’ll call them back as soon as you’re mentally prepared and have gathered the energy for the conversation.</div>
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"To me, a ringing phone is like having somebody jump out of a closet and go 'BOO!,'" says Dembling. "I do like having a long, nice phone call with a friend -- as long as it's not jumping out of the sky at me."</div>
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The upside of being overwhelmed by too much stimuli is that introverts often have a keen eye for detail, noticing things that may escape others around them. Research<a href="http://www.livescience.com/37427-extroverts-have-different-brain-processes.html" style="border: 0px; color: #6aa3b1; list-style: none; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;" target="_hplink">has found</a> that introverts exhibit increased brain activity when processing visual information, as compared to extroverts.</div>
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<strong style="border: 0px; list-style: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">16. You have a constantly running inner monologue.</strong></div>
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“Extroverts don’t have the same internal talking as we do,” says Olsen Laney. “Most introverts need to think first and talk later."</div>
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<strong style="border: 0px; list-style: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">17. You have low blood pressure.</strong></div>
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A <a href="http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/17053539" style="border: 0px; color: #6aa3b1; list-style: none; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;" target="_hplink">2006 Japanese study</a> found that introverts tend to have lower blood pressure than their extroverted counterparts.</div>
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<strong style="border: 0px; list-style: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">18. You’ve been called an “old soul” -– since your 20s.</strong></div>
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Introverts observe and take in a lot of information, and they think before they speak, leading them to appear wise to others.</div>
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"Introverts tend to think hard and be analytical," says Dembling. "That can make them seem wise."</div>
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Neurochemically speaking, things like huge parties just aren’t your thing. Extroverts and introverts differ significantly in how their brains process experiences through "reward" centers.</div>
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<a href="http://www.livescience.com/37427-extroverts-have-different-brain-processes.html" style="border: 0px; color: #6aa3b1; list-style: none; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;" target="_hplink">Researchers demonstrated this phenomenon</a> by giving Ritalin -- the ADHD drug that stimulates dopamine production in the brain -- to introverted and extroverted college students. They found that extroverts were more likely to associate the feeling of euphoria achieved by the rush of dopamine with the environment they were in. Introverts, by contrast, did not connect the feeling of reward to their surroundings. The study "suggests that introverts have a fundamental difference in how strongly they process rewards from their environment, with the brains of introverts weighing internal cues more strongly than external motivational and reward cues," explained LiveScience's Tia Ghose.</div>
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When describing the way that introverts think, Jung explained that they're more interested in ideas and the big picture rather than facts and details. Of course, many introverts excel in detail-oriented tasks -- but they often have a mind for more abstract concepts as well.</div>
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"Introverts do really enjoy abstract discussion," says Dembling.</div>
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Many introverted children come to believe that there's something "wrong" with them if they're naturally less outspoken and assertive than their peers. Introverted adults often say that as children, they were told to come out of their shells or <a href="http://www.theatlantic.com/national/archive/2013/02/introverted-kids-need-to-learn-to-speak-up-at-school/272960/" style="border: 0px; color: #6aa3b1; list-style: none; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;" target="_hplink">participate more in class</a>.</div>
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Introverts are often <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2007/08/20/business/smallbusiness/20webshifting.html?_r=0" style="border: 0px; color: #6aa3b1; list-style: none; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;" target="_hplink">better at communicating in writing</a> than in person, and many are drawn to the solitary, creative profession of writing. Most introverts -- <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/08/13/famous-introverts_n_3733400.html" style="border: 0px; color: #6aa3b1; list-style: none; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;" target="_hplink">like "Harry Potter" author J.K. Rowling</a> -- say that they feel most creatively charged when they have time to be alone with their thoughts.</div>
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Introverts can move around their introverted “set point” which determines how they need to balance solitude with social activity. But when they move too much -- possibly by over-exerting themselves with too much socializing and busyness -- they get stressed and need to come back to themselves, according Olsen Laney. This may manifest as going through periods of heightened social activity, and then balancing it out with a period of inwardness and solitude.</div>
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"There's a recovery point that seems to be correlated with how much interaction you've done," says Dembling. "We all have our own private cycles."</div>
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hui yinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03984541009682824779noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2967821353435887715.post-39243085821863671662013-10-10T22:57:00.000+08:002013-10-10T22:57:08.605+08:00randomHi, its me again, so in the mood to blogging these days, too stress?? too boring?? sometimes i wonder, why am i wasting my precious time just like that.....should have use it enhance myself, rather than recording my past, or my random toughs. Well, actually it depends on the situation, sometimes blogging is good too, but at this moment, i don't think that it's a good idea, at this particular timing, i should do something more beneficial to myself. Okay~ i still decide to continue blogging, 反正我正过着堕落人生。<br />
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So, what am i going to write this time?? things that i missed?? let me think...............<br />
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What have i missed??<br />
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<span style="color: red;">第一</span>:<span style="color: orange;">端午节</span><br />
so pity me, this year i didn't have the chance to eat any dumpling at all T.T dunno where to find dumplings in KL. Although it is fattening, i'm still a big fan of it, whatever type of dumplings also suit me well. I miss you bak chang~<br />
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<span style="color: red;">第二</span>:<span style="color: orange;">中秋节</span><br />
mooncake~ where are you???? living in KL is like living at somewhere else not on the earth, even people around the world is celebrating mid-autumn festival, am i living on Mars?? Missed the time celebrating mid-autumn festival with the gang, it has been......seven years ago?? how time flies, 想当年,我们的青春啊~ and our short hair also, hahaha XD if not mistaken, that should be our first official outing together, right? after PMR exam, so excited, dunno want to do what and so random. ya~ random is our motto, so, it is a memorable event, hope we can celebrate it again in the coming years. I'm so glad 我们曾经疯狂过~ XD<br />
ohya, i want to eat mooncake!!!!!<br />
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<span style="color: red;">第三</span>:<span style="color: orange;">九皇爷诞</span><br />
i'm not a sincere buddhism or taoism i know, what i miss is the food T.T food food food!!!!! why KL don't have any food???? what kind of place is this, probably i stay at the wrong area.......vegetarian food is very delicious, although we can eat it all the time in penang, but only during this period, it is so 壮观,everywhere also selling vegetarian food, TT.TT i wan eat~<br />
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<span style="color: red;">第四</span>:<span style="color: orange;">圣诞节</span><br />
coming soon, but i can forecast for myself, it would be a lonely christmas. Thanks to KL again, i cannot celebrate it with my friends and family. Maybe i should not blame KL this time, i should put the responsibility on internship, why u treat me like that?? hate you.....<br />
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well, a part from the festivals i listed above, i also missed lots of other things like my friends' birthday, parents' birthday, fathers day, mothers day, coming cousin's wedding, friends' graduation ceremony, gathering and lots of other as well. I missed the time when we spent together during secondary school time, seeing each other everyday but still, we have endless conversations. Studying alone in KL is so bored, lazy to make new friend. Everyone has their own friend, like me, i already have you guys, i'm not border to find new friends also. Classmate can never be friend, we are just using each other for study purposes only, i don't think we will contact each other after graduation. What to do, that's part of the journey in our life, we can't go back to the past, so, appreciate it when you still having it.<br />
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Okay, i have spent too much time on this already, better go study now, bye~<br />
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